From the Desk of Karen Chaston
18 January 2021
Re: Revitalise Your Life to Receive the Meaning behind your loss
Dear Magnificient One,
In the last five years, I’ve had hundreds of friends and acquaintances ask me how I did it. How I was able to recover from losing my son and my career and to always be so positive with a smile on my face.
Everyone wanted to know what I did. How I did it. I felt different. I looked different.
I am a better mother. A better partner. A better friend. And a better person because of two massive loss events that happened to me within a very short period of time.
I have found that no matter what loss has happened in your life, there’s one thing that I know for sure. There’s one secret. There’s one key. There’s an important step that you have to take to really understand why you had this loss.
It starts with you.
Your life. Your reason. Your purpose. The meaning behind why this has all happened.
This one answer will change your perspective.
But you have to take the first step. You must say YES to you.
I call this first step “Revitalise Your Life”.
You see the answers come when you reconnect to you. You have all the answers inside of you. But unfortunately, therapy, counselling and crying a river of tears, aren’t always the best way for you to get it.
I realised after years of searching for the answers, that the only way for me to understand why my son, Dan, passed was to stop. To stop running!
For me, it took years to figure out loss and receive what I now call the “Gift of Loss”, or what many call “The Meaning” of your loss events.
After working with hundreds of people from around the world, I kept hearing the same thing over and over again within the first week of working together. They kept saying, “I feel like a new person. Like a cloud has lifted. I haven’t felt this connected to myself in years.”
You see, what happens when you lose someone, when you lose a career, or when you suffer from multiple loss events all in one go, is that you stop living YOUR LIFE.
You forget what your dreams were. You forget what you wanted. You forget what was important to you.
For many people, when they lose a partner or a close family member, or experience a major divorce or separation, they lose their identity in the world.
They no longer know who they are. Or who they would like to be.
For many of my clients, they realise that prior to the tragic loss event, they had stopped looking after themselves because their family, career, or partner became their priority. Whether they were in a relationship where their partner was the breadwinner, or, their child suffered a long cancer journey, then passed away, or they experienced a sudden abrupt career ending where they felt they were really making a difference.
This is why I designed this simple, easy to follow, Revitalise Your Life series. Often this is the hardest step. It’s why I have broken it down into 45 days, one step a day. Where the videos are about 5 to 10 minutes to watch. So, it is gentle, easy to fit into your day, and realistic given your fragile emotions.
I realised that the only way to receive the meaning and gift of your loss event(s), is to do what I call ReVitalise Your Life.
You’ll gain greater awareness. You’ll gain a stronger connection to you and the best path forward.
You’ll become more self aware. And you’ll feel way more in control of where your life is heading and what is important to you, moving forward.
The Revitalise Your Life series was designed with all of this in mind. It’s the first step in assisting you to reconnect to you. To make you a priority in your life. It’s about giving you meaning and purpose and receiving the gift meant for you in your loss event.
For just $45AUD ($30USD), you will take the first step to Revitalise Your Life. That’s just $1 a day or nearly a total of 10 cups of coffee…
Nearly every client who makes the investment, takes the time and really commits to the process, gains more than 10X their investment in the program.